Natural Face Lift

By mati | Filed in Skincare
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As you all know, I’m not into chemicals, lazers, surgery or botox, even though I am born hopelessly vain and would like to preserve some youthfulness as long as possible. So, I’m always looking for alternative, more natural ways to keep the skin nice.

Recently, I discovered two very simple methods that I wanted to share with the rest of you. The first one is a very simple massage that I learned years and years ago from a shiatzu teacher. He used it on people’s back, to increase circulation. I just remembered this, and thought to myself, “Why not use it on the face?” So, I tried it over the last week or so, and it works great and feels good, too.

The technique is simple, and you can practice this on your thighs first. To get a feel for it, grab one hand around the wrist, and shake it. Keep the wrist on the hand that is shaken loose. It will flop back and forth. This is the right way. Now, try both hands. Lift your arms up and down, wrists flopping, and every time they come down, let the fingertips hit your thighs lightly. This is very different from pushing the fingertips into your thighs – they hit the thigh with just the weight of your floppy hands. It feels almost like heavy rain on your skin, and after doing it for a while, your skin starts to feel warm and glowing. The tempo should be quick, tap, tap, tap…

Now, you are ready to try it on your face. After cleansing and spritzing the face with toner, while you are waiting for the toner to dry a bit, tap your face with your fingertips. Make sure you tap every inch of your face, forehead, nose, cheeks, etc, and pay special attention to the area below the eyes.

One reason why we get bags under the eyes is lack of circulation which causes liquid to accumulate. By tapping this area, blood starts flowing, and liquid will drain.

When applying eye serum or concealer, the same thing applies. Instead of smearing and stretching the skin, just apply a dot of serum, and tap it in with the fingers.

You’ll quickly see the effect of this, because not only is it good for the skin, but the face is also full of acupressure points that will keep you healthy and give your skin a fresh glow.

This little ritual only takes minutes to do while you are waiting for the products to penetrate the skin, but you’ll notice the effect within days. So, it is well worth your time and effort. Just look at it as a new way of loving yourself more. Remember, skin care is all about pampering and loving yourself – so here is your chance…

I’ll give you the other tip tomorrow.
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Spring preening

By mati | Filed in Beauty
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Spring is here! It is time to peel of some of the layers of clothes – you may even get a peak of how pale your skin has gotten over the winter. The first day it is warm enough to eat your lunch outside, and you pull your skirt or pants up enough that you can get some sun on your legs, I’m always amazed how pale you can get in such a short time. It always reminds me what “winter white” really looks like!!!

But, don’t despair! There is still hope. A little bit of sun daily will dissipate most of the blinding whiteness and replace it with a slight hint of tint.

The other scary bit is how the darkish hairs on your legs really stand out when the skin is pale! Arghhh… Now, where did I put that shaver?
I think it is time for a bit of preening! Off goes the hairs and on goes my favorite vanilla lotion. That’s better!!

But, the toenails still look like they could use some loving care. First a quick cut, then clean the sock dust away and apply some light and fresh looking nail polish in a peachy pink tone. Don’t even think about using a dark color, if your legs look ghostly white! It will only make you look like a gothic vampire! No, until your legs have a nicely baked sun tone, you must stick with light shades of nail polish.

Now, that’s much better! Don’t you love being a girl? We get to do all the fun stuff! I’m grateful…

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Zumba, medicine for the soul

By mati | Filed in Life
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This morning, I had my first experience of Zumba, and I tell you, that was great fun! Getting together with the girls in my community, sweating, jumping, dancing and shaking our booties, yeah!

We live in such a serious world! Bills have to get paid, taxes, electrics, trash and water. Kids have to go to school, wars have to be fought, and we waste most of our lives doing jobs that we don’t enjoy. Finding joy in our lives is becoming harder and harder.

The problem with being miserable is that the misery vibrates at a lower vibration, and because like attracts like, misery attracts more misery. So, the trick is to find something that takes us out of the misery. Something that brings joy, and Zumba is definitely one of those things!

So, if you thought that Zumba is only for the physical body, you are very wrong! Zumba is medicine for the spirit because it brings back joy into your life, and this joy will raise your vibration to a higher level, which in turn affects your physical body as well.

And, on top of these obvious benefits, you might even lose a few pounds before the bikini season starts. So, what are you waiting for? Go and find a class today…

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Long Hair Over 50

By mati | Filed in Hair
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I have decided to have long hair. What is so extraordinary about that? I’m 52, and I don’t feel like cutting my hair shorter just because I’m getting older.

I have read all those beauty books where they always cut the hair chin short because they are convinced that if you wear your hair any longer, it drags your face down. But, have you noticed that the people they show pictures of in those books always have the wrong hair cut to begin with? Either the hair is all one length and hangs like curtains around the face, or they have no bangs, or a part in the middle, or the hair is bushy, unruly and unstyled, or it is simply too thin to be long.

If the hair is thinning, it definitely needs to be short, there is no question about it, but what if the hair is still thick and beautiful? Yes, it has to be cut professionally, preferably with whispy layers that gives it life and volume, and nicely framed around the face. And, bangs are also the mature woman’s friend, for two reasons:

Bangs hide wrinkles on the forehead and helps to frame the face, and this makes you look younger instantly. If you were able to get away with long hair parted in the middle in your twenties, it just doesn’t look quite the same when you hit fifty. Bangs will work better, either straight, curved or whispy, or at least, have some face framing layers cut in around the face.

Anyway, long hair can be beautiful if you style it nicely. You can find lots of videos on youtube about how to curl or wave your hair with your flat iron, or even about how to create a tousled look by scrunching it while it is drying. It only takes about 5 minutes from flat to gorgeous, then add a little bit of styling cream and a spritz of hair spray to hold everything in place and you are good to go.

If you think short hair is easier, think again! This is the part that those beauty books never tell you – short hair actually needs MORE styling than long hair to stay nice. Do you think those nicely styled hair styles are going to keep looking like that after those people go home? Do you think that you can just cut the hair off and never worry about style again? If you do, you are delusional!

Short hair that is towel dried and just left to dry, will either look flat or frizzy in most cases. And, when you sleep on short hair, it also gets flat, or even worse, kinky in the wrong places! The truth is, for short hair to look good, it MUST be styled, even more so than long hair!

Therefore, from 50 and up, you must be prepared to STYLE your hair, no matter what the length is. Frizzy, straggly, flat hanging hair is no longer an option – but the good thing is, YOU can choose the length! I believe that beautifully styled hair can look good at any length no matter what your age is. Just because we round the corner of 50, doesn’t mean that we have to sacrifice our femininity and chop our locks off. We just have to be willing to put in a few more minutes daily to style the tresses, and make sure we let our favorite hair dresser give us a face flattering cut.

Basically, if you have had the same hair style since you were 20, you MUST consider other options. When your face changes, your hair must, too, but don’t be afraid to keep it long if your hair is still nice, thick and shiny.

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Do vaccines work?

By mati | Filed in Uncategorized
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If you are one of those who still believe in vaccinations, you must read this article about how all the kids in Nepal who were vaccinated against polio, are now getting the disease…
My own son almost died from the MMR, and was in critical condition for 5 days. So, whenever doctors ask if he is current on his vaccinations, they quickly shut up when I tell them that the MMR almost killed him, so no, he is not current on his shots – in fact, I’ll never give him another shot!
Anyway, CLICK HERE to read the article.

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The law of attraction

By mati | Filed in Age of Aquarius
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Things are pretty chaotic out there. Wars, earthquakes, crooked politicians and greedy bankers. What is going to happen? Gloom, doom and destruction? Not necessarily…

Whenever there is chaos, there are many different timelines. There is the timeline of gloom and doom that is served to everyone in the news daily, but this isn’t actually the only option. The truth is, we can create a different future for ourselves, if we don’t buy into the depressing stuff we see in the news. In fact, if you want a different future, you shouldn’t even be watching the news! Whatever you watch, focus and ponder upon, becomes stronger and more likely to be attracted into your life.

What is more important is to have a positive vision for the future. There is nothing wrong in believing that people will learn to communicate with respect, or that people’s hearts are going to open and the world will be full of love and compassion, instead of competition and destruction. But, to create a future like this, will take a conscious shift in perception.

Just think about it – if you think that life sucks, and the world is just a hell whole that you can’t wait to get out of, do you think that you are one of those who are going to be part of a new and positive future? With a sucky attitude, that isn’t what you will attract in your life. You’ll only attract things that suck, and it will confirm and justify your suckiness! This kind of attitude can’t and won’t attract positive things. Why? Because of the law of attraction – like attracts like.

One of the most interesting things about the pictures of Japan before and after the earthquake, was the fact that here and there, in the middle of the destruction, one house had survived! Why is that? What protected one house here and there, when everything else got wiped out? My own feeling is that it has to do with vibration. A positive vibration protects you from bad things happening…

So, now is the time to make some very important choices! What kind of future do you want? Are you letting the news drag you down, or can you hold a positive vision strong in your mind, like a beacon in the dark? If you can’t be positive, then gloom and doom is a certain outcome for you. But if you can change your thoughts to a higher vibration, you become a powerful creator of change, much more powerful than any dark and evil gloom and doom vibration.

Did you know that visionaries don’t get affected so much by what is, because they are always holding the vision of what can be. That vision becomes their guiding light. It can inspire others, and also give you the strength to go on when things in the here and now aren’t going well. A positive vision and attitude will attract positive things into your life. This idea is based on a natural law – the law of attraction. Try it today! Our future depends on it!!!

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Chemicals are all around!

By mati | Filed in Uncategorized
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I wonder if you know about triclosan – at the moment, I can almost guarantee that you have products in your home right now, that contains this toxic chemical!
Triclosan is a toxic anti-microbial chemical that is put into almost everything! You can find it in hand soap, dish washing liquids, hand sanitizers, and worst of all – toothpaste!!! After testing people, they have found that triclosan enters the blood stream, and they have even found traces of triclosan in breast milk! Because most people don’t know about this problem, they probably don’t even know that they are being exposed to triclosan on a daily basis. One of the worst issues are the schools, where they have hand sanitizers everywhere, and encourage our children to smear the toxic chemicals all over their hands before they eat!
If this is a concern for you, there is a petition you can sign that is put on by the cosmeticsdatabase. Click here to read more.

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Must have a tan!!!

By mati | Filed in Beauty
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We are a strange culture of unhappy individuals. Black people are too black, white people are too white. We are supposed to have a nice tan, but not too much tan…

Why do we do this? Why do we have such a narrow window of tolerance for what is beautiful? And why does the label of beauty only apply to the tiniest margin of our species? Something is really out of balance! Today, I even found an article on MSN about how teens go to tanning salons to make sure they will measure up for prom, even though it has been found that tanning salons can actually cause melanoma, one of the deadliest forms of skin cancer which can spread to the inner organs! Are we dying to be beautiful? If so, we probably need our heads examined by someone with lots of qualifications!

Why is it that we have such a hard time just celebrating each person’s individuality? Keeping up a fake facade isn’t going to last very long anyway, so I have never seen a point in that!

When I was young, I used to do the exact opposite. I used to spend a lot of time in a disco club that played very good music, and often times, men would be interested. But, instead of trying to impress them and make them like me, I tried to be as outrageous and cheeky as possible. If they still liked me, in spite of me being outrageously me, then I knew that there was potential for a relationship. And, I had to smile when they later commented about how they were actually pleasantly surprised to find that I was actually nicer than they expected!

I would much rather do it that way, than having to pretend for the rest of my life, that my skin was tan, and that my eyelashes were naturally 1/2″ long. How long can you possibly keep up that kind of charade? Why not just find someone who doesn’t mind the fact that your skin is pale, with freckles, if that is how you happen to look naturally? It may be harder to find a mate, but when you do, at least it will be real…

We must start rebelling about all this superficial nonsense – if we don’t, more and more people are going to get sick and die. If you are pale, BE pale! If you are black, BE black! There is nothing wrong in diversity – in fact, diversity is what makes the human race interesting…

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Modified spagetti strap tops

By mati | Filed in Fashion Tips
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I must admit it – I love spagetti strap tops, especially the ones with a little bit of lace at the top. Maybe it is because it reminds me of the leotards I used when I went to ballet classes in my early twenties, or maybe it is because they look so good under a jacket. I don’t know. I just know that I’m not ready to let go of spagetti strap tops yet.

However, I absolutely hate the contraption that most of them have inside – the dreaded “bra top”! These things are obviously made for teenagers with tiny little breasts that don’t even need a bra. There is no support in this extra fabric and elastic, it just makes the shirt tight and uncomfortable and difficult to put on. And, the worst thing about this straight jacket device is that if you can actually manage to get into it, it has a tendency to pull itself down and push your breasts up over the top, so you keep having to yank on it at regular intervals to prevent your bra from showing. Annoying to say at the least!!!

Recently, I just had enough! I was determined to do major surgery on the lot, and went looking for my scissors! I turned the shirt inside out and cut through the elastic all the way up to the edge, and then I carefully followed the edge all the way around. And wow! A comfortable spagetti strap shirt that actually stays put!!! And, such a simple solution to put an end to my suffering! I was thrilled!

I am so happy I didn’t have to throw them all away! And the best thing about getting rid of the inner workings of the shirt was that it no longer squishes me flat!

A word of caution, though, about how long you can allow yourself to show cleavage: If the cleavage ends up in vertical wrinkles at the top, you are unfortunately better off with a less revealing style. If, however, your cleavage is still wrinkle free, go for it girl!!! Just get rid of the inner teenage modifications, and it will fit just fine…

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